How to Get a Girlfriend
In Under 2 Months
This will be a very long piece that will, more or less, encompass everything you will need to know on getting yourself a girlfriend from scratch in under 2 months from now. Just in time for summer. We will first cover the skills and foundations you need set up in your life. Then we will cover exactly how to go about getting a girl. And later on, I will throw some game for you to incorporate when you’ve followed this Manifesto and find yourself surrounded with a beautiful Braless Brunette Russian lighting up your handrolled cigarette with a zippo for you. Now. Let’s get started.
Mental
This is by far the most important aspect so let’s ride. First thing you must observe are the involuntarily celibate group of men that scour men’s twitter, replying with the utmost clear anger & frustration on any one’s mention of them getting girls. It’s either that never happened or they’re “so cool” for mentioning it. Meanwhile, the smooth player who doesn’t view getting women as a special event but a day to day thing will see as clear as day that these replies are masked in envy and jealousy. These types of replies are chick repellent even if they hire a CIA operative to train them on how to hide their emotions. Why? Because the mental never lies. It exudes in your body language, in your verbal language, in the way you run the relationship to the heavens or straight to the ground.
You think the crypto dorks who lead with money are fulfilled with these temporary, fleeting moments they share with a girl they themselves know to be too good for them? Study crypto dorks and replyguy-ing on tweets regarding men getting women. Almost always angry and spiteful. The reason why is that regardless of their wealth, they know they don’t deserve this woman because of deep, unresolved trauma growing up. Most likely having to do with no success in getting or keeping beautiful women as a youth.
If you don’t know if this is you, take a look at your replies on similar tweets regarding women. Are you replyguy-ing? Constantly angry and in disbelief of another man possibly fucking a hot woman? Do you not believe that every single hot woman is with at least one man? Why can it not be that specific man? Are you angry at the fact that you have come across the fabled man who is very much in fact, not only smashing a beautiful girl you furiously masturbate to, but has her love for him bound by golden chains? If so, then you are the angry, frustrated chump and I must stop you right now, put both my hands on your shoulders and tell you:
“No man who gets laid gets mad at others talking about his escapades with women, assuming it’s not crude and without class. You must visualize yourself as a guy that gets women all the time, and it’s no big deal. Because it truly isn’t. All you need to sleep with one beautiful woman is to understand that your mind built it up to be the most impossible and arduous journey to embark on. It isn’t. Girls have fucked far bigger losers than you. Stop being angry at others in place of your own lack of ambition, guidance on what to do (don’t worry about that now), and skill in being the handsome, suave playboy you know yourself to one day be.”
If this is you, you must slowly start to erase this. Start by observing your emotional reactions. If you ever catch yourself getting mad at another man talking about him getting women or showing him with another beautiful girl, follow these steps:
A man who gets women respects the other man who gets women. So if I want to get women, I must absolve my hatred and frustration, and be happy for this other guy because one day it will be me too. And he will respect me just the same.
Why do I feel this tinge of anger over this? Do I secretly wish that were my hand around her voluptuous, smooth, round ass? Do I believe it’s not ever possible for me? Why am I so angry? Like a grandpa Karen who never got what he wanted out of life. No. I will not allow this to be my fate. I will also have my pick of women.
The way you view yourself will always be seen by women. They have hawk x-ray vision. Far better than men do as they’re not physically strong as we are so they have a far more developed scanner for danger, seriousness, etc. I am not advocating for you to fake your confidence. Just reread the Mental section and remember that a man is always able to forge himself in the fire. Always and forever. But it only gets more difficult as you age, so start now by working on all aspects of your life to prove to your subconscious you are that man.
Physical
Girls do not care for men’s looks nearly as much as men do women’s. Point fucking blank. No you do not need to get an 18 inch neck, although it will probably help a bit at first. No you do not need to get a wider back, although it will probably help a bit at first. And no, you do not need to increase your bench press by 25 pounds before you start talking to girls, although it will probably help a bit at first. And the main reason it will probably help a bit at first is not because the women will find you slightly more physically attractive. Which is true. But what is far more major than that is that you will gain hard-confidence through these physical improvements that cannot be faked in your interactions with the chick. You want to do these things not because it’s attractive for them to look at you, but because you will feel more confident in yourself from achieving these goals, understand? The confidence is far more attractive than any slab of muscle can ever be.
You need to also dress well. Yes you can rock sweatpants and a wife-beater. But now you’re the wife-beater and sweatpants guys so don’t go approaching a chick like a nerd. Play into the bad boy character since that’s what you’re dressing up as. Linen pants and polo shirt in the summer with Gucci loafers on? Play the smooth, elegant playboy style. Dazzle her with your words, small yet confident grin, and confident eye-contact. The way you dress should depict how you are feeling that day, or who you are that day. However, if I had to pick a muscular physique and shit wardrobe versus lean physique and on-point wardrobe, I’d pick the latter every single time. Think Sean Connery James Bond. He’s not jacked to the gills. He’s clearly athletic and lean, and that’s all you’d ever need for almost any girl to find your body attractive. But this is the Raw Manifesto. You can have whichever body you desire, so lean or muscular, the choice is yours. But wardrobe is nearly always a must in either scenario.
Financial
Life is easier with the resources required to facilitate a fun time. That being said, you must never lead with that in dating. If anything, you should try to undercut your wealth and net worth. Nothing sadder than knowing the girl you thought loved you would leave you the moment your wallet has a hole in it. Or your business in the fire. Or you got fired from your job. If she wants to stay with you before you ever get rich or show your true cards, that’s her true desires towards you regardless of your wealth.
So why is this a pillar? Because a lack of money burns the mind and the heart. It’s very stressful to live paycheck to paycheck. And this not only affects your dating abilities and overall game, it affects the way you carry yourself. You will feel more depressed and less likely to smile and spark conversation.
How much do you need?
Enough to not have to count the dollars to see if you can take her out on a date. Enough to know that you are still progressing in money month after month since seeing this girl. And enough to be able to take her on random dinner dates and the occasional weekend trip, all the way to a vacation to Marbella and Morocco. For a majority of my life, I’ve picked up and been in very strong and loving relationships with women with very little money to my name. But it was always just enough. I don’t recommend this to you, and think it’s far better to spend more time focusing on making money rather than women. But I didn’t listen to that advice back then, which is very much in tune with the Raw Manifesto idea of doing the extreme against all odds and still coming out on top; your way.
So have enough to take her out and enough to facilitate fun (although your life should already be fun since you are an interesting man) while progressing in your personal life.
After Foundations
Once your pillars are built and on steady grounding, you can begin to venture into dating with confidence. You may have slight weaknesses in certain aspects and that’s okay. It’s far better for you to be imperfect but ambitious than seemingly perfect but a faggot. Imperfection brings excitement and not knowing what will happen; women dig that. We will assume you never stop working on your foundations and build yourself from within while also dating beautiful model chicks. Now we can get into the dating aspect itself. From here on out, a majority of dating is mental. A mental war within yourself. Constantly trying and failing, reiterating, revisioning, and repeating the process until you hit it. And even then it may not work out, so you may have to be mentally resilient to go out there once again. All these mental tactics can be summarized in these tenets.
The 10 Dater’s Tenets
You can and will replace any and every girl that loses you.
Rejections aren’t based off who you are but who they are and how they’re feeling at that moment; it could very well have been a different outcome 2 weeks ago.
If your life is dog-shit, you will emanate that via your lack of confidence when meeting up; very few are able to put that aside and fake bravado. Fix your shit first; dealing with a girlfriend is a lot of work & can be stressful if you’re constantly losing.
Don’t pedestalize her, she’s just a girl. Other men have done obscene things to her for less or other men will do obscene things to her in the future for less. She’s just a girl.
The one who’s willing to walk out first holds the power.
You must check disrespect, respectfully, or sometimes disrespectfully; that’s fully dependent on your style of character. Both reactions may work, but it must be done.
If one doesn’t work out, try 3 more.
Dating, and life as a whole, is a game of abundance.
It doesn’t matter too much which vehicle (socials/day cold approach/club) you use to find a girl, as long as you seduce her well enough on the first date.
Subconsciously, nearly everything a man does in this world is for women; deep down this is true for nearly all pursuits, even the respect of other men.
Before we begin on the actual blueprint in how you go about finding and securing dates with these girls, we need to make one thing absolutely clear (if it hasn’t been crystal enough).
Bulletproof Mindset
Love is by far the trickiest and most painful endeavour but unlike business, every single human being embarks on this perilous journey whether they want to or not. Every lover, romantic, incel, pornstar, whore, playboy, sexual deviant, monk, whoever has gone through the pain of love and heartbreak. With this in mind, understand that you are not alone in your loneliness (for now), your heartache, your love, your inability to pay attention to anything but her beautiful lips, your inability to eat or sleep at times, and your drive to live more intensely and passionately than ever before. All of these can and will be ignited because of women or a specific woman. Never think you are going through something new under the sun, because you are not. And more than likely, it has been solved and gone through by men of lower caliber than yourself. So you must keep that in mind going on this journey. You’re the fucking man. Every one is replacable and every one who loses out on you LOSES OUT on you. Rejection? Who cares, there’s someone hotter and better right around the corner. Left on seen? Who cares. Backstabbed? Who cares, she’s a life lesson you’ll avoid in future women. Lonely? Who cares, you’ve read The Samurai and The Jester. Everything is a journey that will undoubtedly have its ups and downs, but if you can BEAR IN MIND that your mental needs to be the only fortress solidified by these beliefs, you can go through anything. You can have zero money, zero women, zero friends, waning health. All of that can be managed, uprooted, and rebuilt if you have a bulletproof mindset.
Remember.
You are the man and this world was designed to be difficult and adventurous for men. This is a gift and a curse. The curse lives within the gift like a trojan horse, but you are inside the gift. You know the fruits and weeds it bears, and you will pluck them out from the dirty soil and eat your sweets with the utmost pleasure once you finally make it wherever you’ve been heading. Hold tight, and hold strong. You can do anything with a bulletproof mindset.
Now that we got the prerequisites out of the way, we can begin with the exact blueprint you’re going to follow for the next 60 days, daily. You do this, there is less than 0% chance you don’t come out with the hottest girl you’ve ever been with wrapping her pretty lips ar- you get the point. Like in fitness or business, there will come difficulties, and there will be a lot of times where your ego will be checked. You must make sure to be fluid with this. Don’t let it affect you. Smile. Laugh it off. Brush it off your gargantuan shoulders and sway your gigantic balls to the next prospect. All of those who didn’t understand your vision will one day regret the idea of having missed out on you. But that’s not her nor your fault, so don’t be salty or rude to these girls. Rude dickheads (incels) rarely get laid. Assholes do. Gentleman assholes. But not those out-right insulting women because she says she has a boyfriend or she doesn’t have an IG or she doesn’t give out her number. Take that how it is. Either keep pressing smoothly (solid game very necessary for this) or move on to the next. Copy? Now, I present to you the blueprint on how to get a smokeshow girlfriend in under 2 months.
The Blueprint
We are going to attack this with a multi-pronged approach. If you have difficulty in finding a girlfriend, you are not one to be picky, you should be using multiple avenues to get to where you want to go. The two umbrellas are: