Too many dudes are cucked of their choices by following whatever their well-meaning parents intended for them when they were in diapers. The problem with listening to your family when you are a grown man is you become dependent on outside thought and lose your sense of irrational direction that leads you to places playing safe never could. You need a wild side. You need black fur on your sheep clothing. You are not some NORMAL follower of historic traditions just because that’s what must be done for centuries to come. If it doesn’t make sense to you and you’re a sensible man, you go your own way and let them worry about how you strayed off the path of “light”. They don’t know any better. No one truly knows but yourself and visionaries. And almost none of you know any visionaries in real life to shed some light so you gotta just trust yourself on this one.
They want you safe and consistent with your life choices but when the fuck has that ever led to any excitement or fulfillment in life? Look at playboys swooping beauties? That’s the furthest thing from consistent, common, safe monogamous route. Sure, you probably will not feel the fulfillment of being with the woman you love and having children with them. But every man wants to experience the playboy life for some reason. Look at a billionaire mogul. You think that fool went to college and worked his way up from stocking shelves and flipping burgers like mom and dad intended all the way to starting his own company and ruthlessly decimating his competition? You think that’s what a rule-following Daddy’s boy does?