Dating Broke Vs Grinding Celibate
Which way forward?
The question many young men eventually come to battle with:
do you bunker down and grind until you have a system set up where cash flow isn’t a concern or do you make ends meet while still enjoying your youth?
Many wise men on both sides of this so I figured I’d give you my spin on this.
Truth is that I believe you want most what you have the least of. So then you must ask what do you want more of (assuming you have neither $ or girls)? Do you want the cash flow first? Ability to go to nice restaurants, buy slick clothing, drive fast cars, go on nice vacations, able to pay for dates? Or do you want to skip all that and start taking girls out right this moment? For some reason, a lot of men have convinced themselves — either through the idols they follow online or whatever cuckold-like mentality they’ve abandoned in becoming masochistic towards yourself — that they will not be able to take that beautiful girl out unless they’re making $250k by 21. I really don’t need to wonder where these fantasies come from as I’ve heard Tate and other masculinity-speakers talk about it extensively (funny Andrew only recommends that to his followers now that he’s a whatever-billionaire but did not follow that when he was your age, at all).
So you believe that you wouldn’t stand a chance with that 19 year old chick who goes to college because you work at McDonalds. And that picking up the Russian girl from her grandparent’s place she stays at with your 2011 Toyota Camry is embarrassing and you shouldn’t even bother. Well. We have a lot to unravel and demystify for you, young man. Pay attention, you may actually save a few years of your life and not miss out on magical chapters of your youth.
Check out my book on how to snatch a woman’s soul by reading the first two chapters here.
One of the biggest regrets many will have on their death bed is not doing what they wanted to when they had the chance.