Her Heartstrings Are Yours To Tune
Snatch Her Soul For a Successful Long-Term Relationship
The man controls the relationship. He’s the leader. Point blank. Yes, some guys can pull it off where their women takes lead, sure. It may be good for now, but it’ll blow up in his face sooner or later. A man must have the final say or the woman will resent him eventually for burdening her with the unnatural task of not only running the relationship but the whole family unit. Since we’ve established that, you should be asking how a man can lead the relationship. The answer is by leading her emotions.
Take a guitar. You strum it but it sounds awful. So you tune it properly. It now sounds great. You play it with no problems. Your fingers sometimes get numb, sometimes you get frustrated trying to get a chord just right, but in the end it’s worth it because of the joy this beautiful instrument brings you. With enough play time, you eventually need to tune your guitar. This is mandatory maintenance on any instrument. If you don’t tune it on a frequent basis, entropy will take place — as it naturally does — and displace the notes in chaos. Ruining the playing experience for you. If you tune it improperly, the chords will either play too sharp or too flat. You can’t over tune nor under tune. Has to be right in between, perfectly balanced in the middle. And now you can play again, until the next tuning.
Relationships are one of the most nuanced subjects to talk about. It’s rather tough for me to speak my mind literally because there are so many readers who are filled with garbage philosophies from other shit writers and heartbroken lovers where their baseline understanding of how to conduct a healthy relationship is skewed towards ‘short-term pleasure, long-term disaster’. Those same guys would tune the guitar too much or not enough and eventually the strings will rip right out, or at the very least play a pathetic tune. The player will look in his cut up hands, scratched up face, wondering what went wrong.
Before I dive into some very delicate things involving manipulating and controlling the emotions of your woman to both your benefits, it’s important I preface this by saying that this is not a ‘one-size fits all’ discussion. I cannot possibly be correct about every single man’s relationship with this short text. I cannot possibly know what kind of man you are. The confidence and competence you carry. The obedience your girl already has or lacks for you. There’s just too many variables. However, I can always talk about theory, understandings, and practices based off of my experiences which may deem beneficial to you in yours. I grant you the scripture, what you do with this newfound wisdom is completely up to you.
But understand one thing.
Your woman is the most precious thing to you. You must love her. You must be willing to take a bullet for her and your family if need be. Near everything you do is to for her to smile because she is your favorite. If you don’t believe this, then you and I don’t really have the same philosophy on things. I understand the playboy era. It’s fun. But it’s the least fulfilling era that there is. Legacy building, soul snatching, story-writing adventures with your family is what I find to be the most fulfilling. So if you finally decide to start it with your girl, you need to embody this paragraph. There’s no half-stepping here. She deserves your all because she gives you hers, and more. Love is very delicate. And it works a lot better when both parties are happy.
With that being said, you must not let your emotions take control of your actions. You will have to be cold at times. Take away your attention in very subtle, specific ways, not being overbearing with, either. Punish and reward. And a ton more I cannot cover here. It’s not all butterflies and glitter. The point of this is to gently cover the surface of what it means to control your girl’s emotions to fully benefit the long-term relationship for both of you.
Once again. This is very delicate information. I highly recommend not using this with a woman you don’t see a future with. It’ll ruin her for life. And it’ll definitely return itself onto you. If not in your relationship, then with a close one like your sister, or even your daughter 25 years later. Be an asshole, cool. But be a gentleman asshole. There’s a difference. Know when to apply the bad boy pressure. Don’t make a woman love you on purpose while knowing you want nothing to do with her. That’s plainly evil, and quite frankly, a huge waste of both of your times.
The Original “Hot and Cold”
PUA talk about this compliment to neg shit. It works to degrees but most of you take it too far and say some dumb shit like, “I’m surprised how sexy you are despite the distance between your eyes” or “You’re actually pretty smart for a fucking retard.” This barely works on low quality girls, however it can work on the better ones but it’s a whole skillset knowing how to tone down the insult and increase the praise, as well as how to use it at the right time. Perhaps when she’s warmed up to you. Or if she’s bitchy from the start but you have a feeling she likes to be slightly challenged because you have experience with dating physiognomies. Most don’t. Yet they run with whatever bullshit they get served to them. No good. Won’t find that here.
Instead of talking about PUA hot and cold, I’ll only slightly introduce a very delicate but powerful concept of hot and cold within relationships. I’m talking about you’ve already established boundaries and a relationship. This hot and cold isn’t for getting into her pants, that’s already done. This is for snatching her soul. It’s extremely powerful. Some people, like your humble author, do this naturally. And thanks to my ability to write decently well:
I’m one of the very few who are naturally like this (most Russians/Albanians/Middle-Easterns have this ability, just can’t use it properly because they lack something in the pie chart).
I’m able to succinctly put it to words so the reader can understand, learn, and apply it to their own love life.
None of this is to stroke my ego, by the way. I’m just letting you know that if what you’re reading entices you, you should feel excited and at the very least, a bit grateful to be able to read this for free.
I personally think is a beautiful gift to be given to someone who, let’s say, doesn’t have these gifts. And that’s fine to admit, at least to yourself. I’m not great at many things and will always hire out or ask for help in these fields. For example, I hate tech work. Making websites, designing photo ads, bullshit. Would rather fight a man for the work to be done than figure it out. It’s good to know what your weaknesses are. Some of you are not good at seducing women. Others have no problem with that but can’t keep a relationship going longer than 3 months. Others can have a girlfriend cling on for over a year, but can’t make her fall deeply in love. Know where you weaknesses lie. And use whatever leverage you can to benefit your situation. Or stay arrogant, and shoot your future self in the foot.
The hot and cold magic goes something like this:
You’re very sweet to her. You spend quality time with her. You fuck her well. You cuddle with her right after. You whisper nice, romantic things in her ears you wouldn’t want any one else to hear. You make her blush and fill her with all these giddy neurotransmitters. And then, the moment she does something you don’t like. You let the ice cold of your heart lick her frozen. Depending on where you’re at in the relationship, or what kind of man you are, you either yell at her with full ferocity. Or you scold her about what she did. Or you look her deeply in the eyes with a stern, dead-pan look, and tell her, “I expect this from a girl I wouldn’t take seriously. It seems I read you wrong.” And walk away.
Now of course, you don’t need to do any of this, nor use it exactly like that. I’m just painting a picture here so you get the overall gist, as I try to do with all of these particularly tricky subjects. There is no exact playbook on details, just broad strokes. But the point you should be understanding is that when things are good, they’re really good. The best, matter of fact. But when things get bad, and usually because she caused them, they’re really bad. You’re utilizing extremes, you understand?
Anything is better than the middle. But nothing is better than both extremes combined into one. Now a very important caveat that will 1000% either make or break your relationship is this:
You want the good to be 90-99% of the time. And the bad the rest. A lot of guys who (barely) understand this concept, almost always do way more bad than is necessary which can make her either:
Worn down to the point where she’s a shell of a person (sad sight to behold)
Afraid of hurting you so she hides or lies about the truth from you
Leaves because of all the emotional turmoil (most women don’t have the strength to do this if you she’s soul-snatched but that’s not what you want from the woman you love)
I can go much deeper on this but I think this will suffice. If you can understand this topic, even a little, and use it properly, she will not only fall for you more but she will be inseparable. She will be craving you like a crackhead does her drugs. I’m not joking. The neurotransmitter cocktail you brew up will be on that same level. It’s very lethal as love usually is. And when properly executed, you will not only have her loyalty, her love, her mind, but her soul.
Although this is one of the major themes of truly controlling her emotions, I’ve only scratched the surface on this and it goes far deeper. There are a lot of different things I can add to this specific concept but that’ll take too much time and is far too much value for a free post as well. I will continue on with the blog for my paid subscribers, going in detail with a few other things that magically whisk her soul away into your hands.
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